Marwadi weddings reflect the rich cultural heritage and initiation of celebration and festivity. Each ceremony in the Marwadi wedding is filled with symbolic rituals passed down through generations. At Party Funn, we take care of every rasm and execute it with the minutest details in perfection so that your wedding should be beyond perfection. Here comes the detailed guide that explains what comprises a Marwadi wedding.
Pre-Wedding Rituals
1. Roka Ceremony
The Roka ceremony marks the official engagement and acceptance of the alliance by both families. This is the very first step towards the marriage and involves only a small puja along with an exchange of gifts and sweets.
Services by Party Funn:
- Puja coordination with the priests.
- Arranging for gifts and sweets.
- Decorating the venue with traditional elements.
2. Sagai (Engagement Ceremony)
The Sagai or Engagement ceremony is when the bride and groom exchange rings in each other’s presence before their families and friends. Sometimes, this comes with a small celebration too.
Services by Party Funn:
- Beautifully decorated setup for the ring ceremony.
- Arrangements for catering and entertainment.
- Capture of moments through photography and videography.
3. Ganapati Sthapana and Griha Shanti
A Ganapati idol is installed and his puja performed to seek his blessings for peace and prosperity. It is an essential ceremony to start the wedding preparation on a very positive note.
Party Funn Services:
- Puja setup with entire required items.
- Coordination with priests.
- Decor and lighting arrangement.
4. Pithi Dastoor
A traditional turmeric paste is applied to the bride and groom. This ceremony in most cases is held separately at respective homes, that too holds the presence of only very close family members and friends.
Services by Party Funn:
- Setup of the pithi ceremony area with floral decor.
- Preparation of the turmeric paste.
- Music and entertainment for the ceremony.
5. Mehendi
It also includes the Mehndi ceremony, where Mehndi is put on the hands and feet of the bride. In this function too, only the ladies in the family and friends of the bride participate and enjoy the function by singing songs and performing dances to make it a lively night.
Services of Party Funn:
- Manage professional mehendi artists.
- Music with DJ setup.
- Decoration with color fabrics and flower garnishing.
6. Sangeet
Sangeet is an evening of music, dance, and performances by family and friends. A joyous and fun moment before your wedding’s main day.
Party Funn Services:
- Setup of the stage with sound and light.
- Dances.
- Themed decoration and catering services.
7. Haldi
A paste of turmeric is applied to both the bride and groom by their respective families to cleanse and protect them from any evil eye. This ceremony normally takes place separately at their respective homes.
Services by Party Funn:
- Haldi ceremony setup with traditional decor.
- Preparation of turmeric paste.
- Music and entertainment for the ceremony.
Wedding Day Rituals
1. Baraat
The groom rides to the wedding venue on a decorated horse, led by a fun baraat of relatives and friends dancing to the endearing beats of traditional music.
Party Funn services:
- Arrangement of horse and baraat procession.
- DJ and dhol players for the baraat.
- Baraat decoration and logistics management.
2. Aarti and Tilak
The mother of the bride performs an aarti for the groom and puts tilak on his forehead as a gesture of welcome.
Party Funn services:
- Aarti thali set up with all the requisites.
- Coordination with the bride’s family.
- Welcoming decoration at the entrance of the venue.
3. Jaimala
The bride and the groom exchange flower garlands with one another, which means they accept each other and respect the presence of the other in their lives.
Party Funn services:
- Flower decoration of the jaimala stage.
- Flower garland arrangements.
- Jaimala ceremony coordination.
4. Madhuparka
The honey-curd drink is offered to the bridegroom at his welcome as a gesture or depiction of sweetness and purity.
Party Funn Services:
- Madhuparka drink preparation.
- Ceremony coordination with bride’s family.
5. Kanyadaan
The father of the bride hands over his daughter to the groom. It is considered a transfer of responsibility to the groom.
Party Funn Services:
- Kanyadaan ceremony area setup.
- Coordination with priests and bride’s family.
- Decor and seating arrangement for the ceremony.
6. Panigrahan
The groom takes the hand of the bride. It is the “Will thou be mine?” in the marriage ceremony to which the groom glances at the bride, and she is presented to him.
Party Funn Services:
- Coordination with the priests for the panigrahan ceremony.
- Decor and seating arrangement.
7. Phere
The bride and groom take seven holy rounds – phere of the holy fire. Every round taken symbolizes a vow of the couple to each other.
Services by Party Funn:
- Mandap setup with traditional decoration.
- Holy fire setup along with the needed items.
- Coordination with the priest for the ceremony.
8. Sindoor Daan and Mangalsutra
The groom smears sindoor on the forehead and ties mangalsutra around the neck of his bride, which is considered to be the emblem of their marital status.
Services by Party Funn:
- Arrangement for sindoor and mangalsutra.
- The groom’s family would be contacted for the ceremony and all arrangements will then be formulated.
9. Aashirwad
The newlywed couple seeks blessings from elders of the families for a happy and prosperous married life.
Services by Party Funn:
- Setup for aashirwad.
- Contact the family members for aashirwad.
Post-Wedding Rituals
1. Vidai/Bidaai
The bride says goodbye to her family and proceeds to her in-law’s house with the groom. It’s a very emotional function, which marks her new beginnings in her life.
Party Funn Services:
- Organizing vidai ceremony.
- Decoration and arrangement of logistics for the bride’s departure.
- Arrangements of transportation for bride and groom.
2. Griha Pravesh
The bride is welcomed into the groom’s home with traditional rituals, mostly the bride kicking a rice pot kept at the entrance before entering, which is a sign of prosperous and abundant entry.
Party Funn Services:
- Griha pravesh ceremony arrangement at the groom’s place.
- Arrangement of the proceedings with the groom’s family.
- Decoration and other items needed for the function.
3. Mooh Dikhai
The bride is introduced to the extended family of the groom’s side. The bride is showered with gifts and blessings.
Services by Party Funn:
- Managing presents and seating for the mooh dikhai ceremony.
- Coordination with the groom’s family.
4. Pag Phera
After some days of marriage, the bride comes to her parents’ house. This event signifies that the bride is still a part of the maternal family. She is mostly given gifts by her parents on her way back to her new home.
Services by Party Funn:
- Managing the pag phera ceremony.
- Managing travel and gifts.
5. Reception
A fine feast by the groom’s family to formally present the newly married couple before their extended family and friends. Music, dance, and a fabulous feast characterize this occasion.
Services by Party Funn:
- Reception event planning and execution.
- Decor, catering, and entertainment arrangements.
- Photography and videography for capturing the celebration.
The Significance of Marwadi Wedding Rituals
The Marwadi wedding rituals are not just a few ceremonies but have much deeper cultural and spiritual meaning. Each of them symbolizes different aspects of married life and the union of the two families.
- Roka Ceremony: It signifies an official initiation of marriage preparations and mutual consent of both families. It means formal engagement declaration.
- Sagai: This is the engagement ceremony, where rings are exchanged, promising marriage and commitments.
- Ganapati Sthapana and Griha Shanti: These are rituals in the wedding to seek Lord Ganesha’s blessing for the smooth and hassle-free completion of wedding ceremonies. He removes all obstacles, is peaceful, and does not offer any resistance or problems.
- Pithi Dastoor: Turmeric paste application purifies the body and soul, saving from evil eyes and inviting good fortune.
- Mehendi: This forms a part of beautification and also represents the great bonding between the bride and the groom. The darker the mehendi, the greater the bonding.
- Sangeet: It is a celebration of joy with music and dance where the families come together rejoicing in celebration for the union. It is the beginning of a new journey in happiness.
Haldi: Haldi is one ceremony that is said to purify the bride and groom; it also protects them from evil spirits. The paste of yellow turmeric correspondingly alludes to magnificence and prosperity.
